Surrogate Testimonial:
Tammy

Meet Tammy!

“FSC has been absolutely amazing“

Tammy is an amazing surrogate that delivered a healthy baby boy to his proud parents recently and a healthy baby girl for her proud parents in 2024.

Q: What led you to become a Surrogate?

I always knew I wanted to be a surrogate, but I had to wait until the laws in my state changed to make it possible. Once they did, I reached out to Family Source Consultants and began the application process. They guided me step by step through medical evaluations, psychological screenings, and legal paperwork to make sure I was fully prepared.

Q. Who was the most significant support person throughout your journey?

Without a doubt, my husband and my children have been the most significant part of my surrogacy journey. Their support, encouragement, and understanding gave me the strength to move forward with confidence. My husband stood by me every step of the way, and my children were proud of the role I was taking on, which made the experience even more meaningful. After my family, the intended parents were incredibly significant as well, because their excitement and hope inspired me throughout the process. Finally, the team at FSC was a constant source of guidance and reassurance, helping me feel cared for and supported from start to finish.

Q. What made you decide to choose your Intended Parents?

The match process with FSC was thoughtful and personal. I felt a strong connection with both sets of intended parents right away. Their values, hopes, and gratitude aligned so well with my own desire to help a family grow, which made the decision very natural.

Q. What are some of the highlights of your journey?

Both of my journeys started with successful embryo transfers, which was such a hopeful and emotional moment. Carrying a healthy baby each time was rewarding, but nothing compared to the moment I handed the baby to their parents. Watching them see their child for the first time is something I will never forget.

Q. Do you have advice for women who are interested in becoming a gestational surrogate?

I would tell her that it is one of the most rewarding experiences she could ever have, but it is important to choose the right agency and have a strong support system. Go into it with an open heart and realistic expectations, and remember that the end result is bigger than any challenge you might face along the way.

Q. How do you feel about your experience working with Family Source Consultants?

FSC has been absolutely amazing. They provided guidance, encouragement, and support through every part of the process. I never felt alone, and I always felt valued and cared for. They truly made both of my journeys smooth and positive.

Q. What did you find was the biggest misconception people had about surrogacy?

I think the biggest misconception is that it must be difficult to give up the baby. In reality, you know from the very beginning that the baby is not yours, and the joy of giving that child to their parents is far greater than any sadness.

Q. What would you like other people to know about surrogacy?

I would like people to know that it is an incredible act of love and generosity. It is not about money or giving something up, it is about helping create families and being part of something life-changing.

Q. How has becoming a surrogate impacted your life?

It has changed my life in so many ways. It has given my family opportunities we never expected, like traveling and new experiences. It has also given me lifelong connections with the families I helped. Most importantly, it has filled my life with gratitude.

Q. What was the funniest/strangest/most common question you were asked as a surrogate?

The most common question I get is, “Don’t you get attached to the baby?” My answer is always no, because I went into this journey knowing the baby was never mine. My role was to nurture and carry the child until the parents could hold them.

Q. Was this pregnancy different than your other pregnancies? If so, how?

For the most part, they were very similar to my own pregnancies. The only difference was the emotional aspect, I was carrying with a different purpose, and I felt honored to do so for another family.

Q. How did you prepare yourself for separating from the baby after birth?

I never saw it as separating from my baby, but rather delivering someone else’s child back into their arms. From the very start, I focused on the bigger picture, which helped me be emotionally prepared.

Q. What would you like someone who is considering working with a surrogate to know?

I would want them to know how deeply committed surrogates are to their role. We do this out of love and the desire to help. It is a partnership built on trust and respect, and when both sides honor that, the journey can be truly beautiful.

Q. Is there anything else you’d like to share with us regarding your experience as a Surrogate?

I am grateful every single day for the opportunity to have been a surrogate. It has brought joy not only to the families I helped but also to my own family. I hope that by sharing my story, I can encourage more women to consider surrogacy and more intended parents to feel hopeful about their dreams of having a child.

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